If you read that conversation between those two married people carefully, you'll notice that the woman said "when men knack, they disappear". And that's why these ladies bill them. I think what ladies miss the most is that a man withdrawing after knacks, is not a red flag.

And I keep getting DMs from ladies making the same mistake. This is about the umpteenth time that I will be teaching this topic. What most men want from the beginning is just to knack & go. If you see his withdrawal as a sign that he's not serious, you'll miss the opportunity

that your toto afforded you to meet your right man, you'll continue to pile up body counts. Except you're not truly interested in being in a serious relationship. In sustaining relationships and marriage, women do most of the work. Men are not as attentive & focused in it

as the women do. It's mostly when men have played around that they'll suddenly realize that they have that woman that is different from the others. And it starts from relationship. Allow him to continue to "misbehave" but stay focused and patient. Yes I know women love all

the attention, but if you're patient, that man will surely come to his senses & suddenly realise that if he loses you, he will lose his potential wife. I did it too. I took my wife for granted many times when we were dating. One day, she told me this... "All these things that

you're doing to me, the day I'll turn my back on you, you would lost me forever". I sat down and gave myself brain. After many years of relationship, this woman still accepted all my nonsense. The rest is history. Because men feel like they have more time than women, they

take time to show commitment. It's the most expensive thing a man has when it comes to relationship. Too many women will be distracting him. He wants to sleep with the dark, fat, tall, big bumbum, big breasts etc. All those things are attractions to him. Which is cheap.

In his "escapades", it's that one woman amongst the lots that will win his heart & commitment. Try to be that woman. You do not have the luxury of time like he does. If you want to join him in his "game", you may be the eventual loser. Or both of you would lose because you

either weren't patient enough, or he abused his privileges and lost it. When you meet a man, weigh him. If he ticks a lot of your boxes, lock him down. Use your feminine powers to win him over. Men are the prize. Begging him for money for food, hair, airtime, rent etc..

are not feminine powers. That's olosho mentality. When you finally win him, all those things will naturally come to you in more folds. And the ultimate price for you, he would be wiling to pay for it. Because you'll be the mother of his unborn kids. I hope you learn. End.