On the Billy Graham Rule... Do you know what's amazing? Having a husband who is faithful because he chooses you and not because he has no opportunity to choose anyone else. I'm not fighting another woman for my husband. I'm winsome to him and he chooses. 1/5

My husband does a manly job in a female dominated place. He does things that declare "I'm a man" and make women very happy. He fixes their stuff, rearranges their offices,... Recently he went back to school. All of his coworkers told him this is your chance to network. 2/5

The relationships you build in class could be the source of you next job/level up. He came to me concerned because he had invited his classmates to his hangout bar across the street before class and the only girl in the class was the only one who could make it. 3/5

He asked if I wished he'd withdraw his invitation. "Please don't" I said. "She needs to network in this class just as much as you do. Don't you be the one who makes that awkward for her. Go. Treat her like an equal, walk to class and come home to me. I trust you to do this." 4/5

Purity is not a lack of opportunity it is an active choice. You don't fall into adultery you walk into it willingly. The Billy Graham Rule sounds honorable but in almost all real world applications it is just sexist. 5/5